If you are still single,why are you single? Knowing that you are ripe for marriage but you still remain single. Maybe you are afraid to go into marriage or you are yet to find the type of person that matches the qualities you are looking for. Well,anything that is delaying you,I hope you will be able to find the type you are looking for in the end.But,let me tell you that you don't need to rush, neither do you need to manage or endure someone that cannot be corrected.I see a lot of marriages that have crashed,this is what prompted me to write this article which I think can help you.
There is a saying that a failed courtship is better than a failed marriage.I think, that is quite correct. Relationship is about two people that understands each others,thinks about each others and can do anything to help each others.It is not about one person striving to make things work out while the other doesn't care.I will try and analyze some points that will help you make a good relationship here
1. We seems to forget some things when we are starting a relationship which mostly affect us after marriage. While courting,you need to open your eyes very wide and see all you are supposed to see so that you don't have cause to regret later. There should be careful examination of the person you are wishing to spend the rest of your life with. Make sure you have as many as possible dates to see all you have to see,don't rush yourself into marriage. This is the problem with distant relationship, they don't have time to talk together, go out together,plan together and discuss what future they whished for together,so I don't encourage a distant relationship because it is dangerous and easy to decieve others.Know what your man or woman likes and hates.Know the attitude and many other things like that.
2. There should be sound courtship,that is where you will know much about your partner, because the marriage is supposed to be enjoyed not endured. That can only be achieved when there are two like minded in the relationship. Discuss how much both of you love sex, because some people love sex while others don't enjoy it,agree on things before you proceed to marriage. Try and discover how loyal your partner is,if he/she is not loyal and you have tried to change things, but still remain the same,put an end to such relationship, if you try to patch it,it will cause problems in future. If there is something you are trying to correct in your partner that you know can harm the relationship in the future and he/she is not yielding to correction, put an end to such relationship. I say,don't manage, thinking things will change later,you might be digging the grave for your marriage. Make sure you are comfortable enough in your relationship, that way,you can be happy when you get married.
There is a saying that a failed courtship is better than a failed marriage.I think, that is quite correct. Relationship is about two people that understands each others,thinks about each others and can do anything to help each others.It is not about one person striving to make things work out while the other doesn't care.I will try and analyze some points that will help you make a good relationship here
1. We seems to forget some things when we are starting a relationship which mostly affect us after marriage. While courting,you need to open your eyes very wide and see all you are supposed to see so that you don't have cause to regret later. There should be careful examination of the person you are wishing to spend the rest of your life with. Make sure you have as many as possible dates to see all you have to see,don't rush yourself into marriage. This is the problem with distant relationship, they don't have time to talk together, go out together,plan together and discuss what future they whished for together,so I don't encourage a distant relationship because it is dangerous and easy to decieve others.Know what your man or woman likes and hates.Know the attitude and many other things like that.
2. There should be sound courtship,that is where you will know much about your partner, because the marriage is supposed to be enjoyed not endured. That can only be achieved when there are two like minded in the relationship. Discuss how much both of you love sex, because some people love sex while others don't enjoy it,agree on things before you proceed to marriage. Try and discover how loyal your partner is,if he/she is not loyal and you have tried to change things, but still remain the same,put an end to such relationship, if you try to patch it,it will cause problems in future. If there is something you are trying to correct in your partner that you know can harm the relationship in the future and he/she is not yielding to correction, put an end to such relationship. I say,don't manage, thinking things will change later,you might be digging the grave for your marriage. Make sure you are comfortable enough in your relationship, that way,you can be happy when you get married.
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