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KEEPING YOUR MARRIAGE FOR LONG
KEEPING YOUR MARRIAGE FOR LONG
Marriage is a lifelong contract and everyone should see it that
way,the moment you begin to see it from another angle,then there is
problem. Marriage is full of ups and downs but,when there are downs,we
have to find a way to be creative like the artist and comes out strong
to be able to last long. It is about two people coming together to be
one and these two people are coming from different backgrounds. One
cannot assume that the other person knows every rights and wrongs,that
is where problem comes. You should know that your partner is not all in
all and he/she is not above above mistake. So,you should have it in mind
that when mistake comes,you need to resolve it immediately.
It is unfortunate that a lot of homes have prematurely crashed because
of one or the other reasons. I will like to mention some points which I
think will help you keep your marriage strong, if you can apply
them,they will be of utmost important to keep your marriage strong.
1.RESPECT YOUR PARTNER;The kind of respect with which you started
during the courtship should continue. It is certain that everybody wants
to be respected whether young or old,so your partner is not
exception.Respect your partner always and you will see how strong your
marriage will be.
2.SHOW GENUINE LOVE; If there is genuine love,you will not disrespect
your spouse.With love,all things are possible.Love will make your home
strong and there will be no unnecessary arguments which mostly cause
problems in marriage. Give each others gifts, especially the kind of gift that will be a surprise to your spouse. It makes the feelings for each others more stronger.
3.PATIENCE; Do you know you can actually cook stone with patience? If
your partner is a easy to anger type,you need to show patience when
he/she is fuming,be calm and compose. If you think what you are saying
is making him/her more angry,stop saying it or don't talk more until the
anger comes down. After the anger comes down,some hours after, let
him/her understand the point you are trying to pass across and resolve
matters immediately, your partner will also reason with you if you
present your point in a respectful manners. Never try to raise your
voice at the same time with your partner so that things don't get complicated.
4. APOLOGIZE FOR YOUR MISTAKES; Learn to say sorry if you are at fault
and learn to tolerate each others every time,that is what can keep your
marriage strong. That simple word ''sorry'' is very strong,learn to say it because it doesn't kill you and it will only mend things.
5.RESOLVE CONFLICTS QUICKLY; It is very important to resolve any
misunderstanding immediately especially on the same day.Don't be quick
to tell people about your partner's wrong doings,make effort to resolve
things first. If you can't resolve it,you can ask advice from parents or
religious leader.
My friend,who is reading this now,it is good to have happy home but,it is strictly
in your hand if you want to have a happy home you need to make some sacrifices in your marriage,overlook things that needs be and move on in peace. Try all your best and
make things work.Thanks for reading this, hope this helps one way or the other. I hope you find peace in your matrimonial home.
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