KEEPING YOUR MARRIAGE FOR LONG

  Marriage is a lifelong contract and everyone should see it that way,the moment you begin to see it from another angle,then there is problem. Marriage is full of ups and downs but,when there are downs,we have to find a way to be creative like the artist and comes out strong to be able to last long. It is about two people coming together to be one and these two people are coming from different backgrounds. One cannot assume that the other person knows every rights and wrongs,that is where problem comes. You should know that your partner is not all in all and he/she is not above above mistake. So,you should have it in mind that when mistake comes,you need to resolve it immediately. It is unfortunate that a lot of homes have prematurely crashed because of one or the other reasons. I will like to mention some points which I think will help you keep your marriage strong, if you can apply them,they will be of utmost important to keep your marriage strong. 

 1.RESPECT YOUR PARTNER;The kind of respect with which you started during the courtship should continue. It is certain that everybody wants to be respected whether young or old,so your partner is not exception.Respect your partner always and you will see how strong your marriage will be.

 2.SHOW GENUINE LOVE; If there is genuine love,you will not disrespect your spouse.With love,all things are possible.Love will make your home strong and there will be no unnecessary arguments which mostly cause problems in marriage. Give each others gifts, especially the kind of gift that will be a surprise to your spouse. It makes the feelings for each others more stronger.

3.PATIENCE; Do you know you can actually cook stone with patience? If your partner is a easy to anger type,you need to show patience when he/she is fuming,be calm and compose. If you think what you are saying is making him/her more angry,stop saying it or don't talk more until the anger comes down. After the anger comes down,some hours after, let him/her understand the point you are trying to pass across and resolve matters immediately, your partner will also reason with you if you present your point in a respectful manners. Never try to raise your voice at the same time with your partner so that things don't get complicated. 

4. APOLOGIZE FOR YOUR MISTAKES; Learn to say sorry if you are at fault and learn to tolerate each others every time,that is what can keep your marriage strong. That simple word ''sorry'' is very strong,learn to say it because it doesn't kill you and it will only mend things.

 5.RESOLVE CONFLICTS QUICKLY; It is very important to resolve any misunderstanding immediately especially on the same day.Don't be quick to tell people about your partner's wrong doings,make effort to resolve things first. If you can't resolve it,you can ask advice from parents or religious leader. My friend,who is reading this now,it is good to have happy home but,it is strictly in your hand if you want to have a happy home you need to make some sacrifices in your marriage,overlook things that needs be and move on in peace. Try all your best and make things work.Thanks for reading this, hope this helps one way or the other. I hope you find peace in your matrimonial home.

SHOP ONLINE WITHOUT GETTING SCAMMED

Shopping online is very easy and good but,there are some people waiting to take your money without doing the service they promised to offer.In this article,I want to show you with my shopping experience online,how to avoid being scammed and some of the website that I have shopped with.      I have perticularly done my shopping on WWW.aliexpress.com, WWW.DX.com WWW.eBay.com and some others but I do most of my shopping on aliexpress.Aliexpress is a place where you get a lot of things at ridiculously cheap price and the same goes with www.dhgate.com. They are Chinese shopping portals. I will explain how to shop successfully on aliexpress ,take a look at the item you want to buy,check as many as possible of it,after doing that,go to the rating of each of the items,make sure you choose the one with best rating and ensure that you ask the vendor whether the item is still in stock before you place your order. I can guarantee you that all the orders I have placed on aliexpress arrived to my place safely and in good condition except for only two that did not arrive and I was able to get my money back through opening of dispute. If you can apply my method,be rest assure that you won't have problems of being scammed.Also,make sure the vendor give you correct tracking number so that it will be easy for you to know where your shipment is.If the tracking number you get is not working,don't keep mute,let the vendor know what is going on.If you have waited till the maximum time for delivery and your order did not arrive,open a dispute to that effect and follow how the dispute is being resolved.      As for www.dx.com, I have made some orders there too and all of them arrived but they were all late to arrive. I will advice you to buy from them using your paypal so that it will be easy for you to file a case if the items you order did not arrive.If you have waited till time they are supposed to deliver and they have not,open dispute with paypal and they will help you retrieve your money.     As for www.ebay.com and all other sites,I will advice you to buy through paypal,expecially if you are buying from countries that your bank won"t help you retrieve your money in case anything goes wrong,make sure you use paypal so that you can be able to retrieve your money if things goes wrong.    I hope this article helped and I will be more than glad to help you if you encounter any problem shopping online,you can always drop your comments and you can also subscribe to our posts.you can follow on twitter @iamforfree and you can also follow on google plus.Thanks for reading and please come back to get more free stuffs that will do you good.

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