ARE YOU STILL SINGLE?

If you are still single,why are you single? Knowing that you are ripe for marriage but you still remain single. Maybe you are afraid to go into marriage or you are yet to find the type of person that matches the qualities you are looking for. Well,anything that is delaying you,I hope you will be able to find the type you are looking for in the end.But,let me tell you that you don't need to rush, neither do you need to manage or endure someone that cannot be corrected.I see a lot of marriages that have crashed,this is what prompted me to write this article which I think can help you.

There is a saying that a failed courtship is better than a failed marriage.I think, that is quite correct. Relationship is about two people that understands each others,thinks about each others and can do anything to help each others.It is not about one person striving to make things work out while the other doesn't care.I will try and analyze some points that will help you make a good relationship here


1. We seems to forget some things when we are starting a relationship which mostly affect us after marriage. While courting,you need to open your eyes very wide and see all you are supposed to see so that you don't have cause to regret later. There should be careful examination of the person you are wishing to spend the rest of your life with. Make sure you have as many as possible dates to see all you have to see,don't rush yourself into marriage. This is the problem with distant relationship, they don't have time to talk together, go out together,plan together and discuss what future they whished for together,so I don't encourage a distant relationship because it is dangerous and easy to decieve others.Know what your man or woman likes and hates.Know the attitude and many other things like that.


2. There should be sound courtship,that is where you will know much about your partner, because the marriage is supposed to be enjoyed not endured. That can only be achieved when there are two like minded in the relationship. Discuss how much both of you love sex, because some people love sex while others don't enjoy it,agree on things before you proceed to marriage. Try and discover how loyal your partner is,if he/she is not loyal and you have tried to change things, but still remain the same,put an end to such relationship, if you try to patch it,it will cause problems in future. If there is something you are trying to correct in your partner that you know can harm the relationship in the future and he/she is not yielding to correction, put an end to such relationship. I say,don't manage, thinking things will change later,you might be digging the grave for your marriage. Make sure you are comfortable enough in your relationship, that way,you can be happy when you get married.

PLANNING FOR LIFE AFTER RETIREMENT

  

 Life after good years of work is what we called retirement. This is the time we are not able to work like we use to, for example, working as salary earner. Everybody dream is to have a happy retirement life. To live good life after retirement depends on how well you planned for it.

    Retirement is what a lot of people always expect to spend in joy, but when it is time for retirement, a lot of people find life difficult during retirement. It is important to plan your retirement very well before the time comes. Before the retirement, you need to find something that will be the source of income to support yourself during the retirement.

    HOW TO PLAN FOR RETIREMENT?

1.       Account for the money you are spending per annum and use it to calculate what your expenses will be during your retirement. Prepare for expenses on yourself and your health during retirement.

2.       Plan for retirement by saving money with pension scheme institutions, buying bonds and shares.

3.       Invest your money into companies that does business and are gaining.

4.         Invest in companies that are into exchange of money.

5.       Find extra job to do apart from your real daily job, to be able to increase your savings.

6.        Reduce your spending, especially, you should buy things in bulk, like when you want to buy food and other stuffs that you can buy in bulk.

7.       Write down your expenses and find ways to reduce it so, that you can save more money.

8.       If you are not in your own house already, don’t rent expensive house, look for a house that will cost you less.

I believe if you can try all the above mentioned points out, you will be able to cut your expenses and save enough for your retirement.

WHAT MAKES 'TIME' SO SPECIAL?

Time is so precious a thing, what you do with it depends on what it brings to you. I was talking to someone just last Saturday,he said to me,''Nathaniel,we are almost at the end of the year again and the days are just counting faster''.I told him, ''time waits for no one,as this was how last year went by just like wind'',if you wait too much,you are probably going to remain where you are when the goal setters are pursuing and achieving their goals. You will be left with excuses and complaints. If you are still there by this month without having a goal you are after,you are probably going to kick yourself again at the end of the year like you always do.The people that are doing well are those that set their goals and go after it with all their abilities and achieve their goals.Never think it will come to you at no cost. What can you do to make it up with your colleagues that are serious goal getter? It is about time that you set you own goals too,it is never too late,do the following;

1. SET YOUR GOALS: Hardly do you see a man without direction succeed in life. Without a set goals,there is no direction. Your goals gives you direction of what to do at a certain time.What do you think you want to become in life? Write them down somewhere very bold,arrange them in the order of preference to make it easy for you.

2. PASTE YOUR GOALS IN YOUR ROOM: Paste your goals in your room or anywhere where you will be able to read them to yourself everyday.Go through those goals everyday and make effort towards achieving them everyday. It will be very hard to achieve your goals if you are a lazy type because lazy people get easily discouraged.

3. WORK TO ACHIVE YOUR GOALS; make sure you work towards achieving your goals every day.You may encounter some problems,don't get discouraged because only tough people can achieve goals and only tough people do last. Whenever you encounter a problem in your way,let your mind be fixed at what you are after so that you won't be discouraged.

4. MAKE FRIEND WITH ACHIEVERS; The type of people you are moving with might determine how strong you'll be,don't move with people that has no goals,people that are not achievers,people that always postpone things,people that are lazy,people that have no goals.If you move with them,they will always be a distraction and discourage you.Remember,you should be strong in taking decisions, don't doubt your ability,always have it in mind that you can do it and can even do it better than others. Once you have that mind set,you are good to go.
 In conclusion, make sure you set your goals today,do something about it and achieve them.Even if its a low earning job you are engaged with,you can be creative with it to earn more.Creativity is important.Read books relating to your goals,find knowledge and you will see how happy you will become.Thanks for reading this lit the article and have a happy life. What do you think?